Friday אסרו חג פסח 5783 Isru Chag Lakewood
Shlissel Challah, the Key to making it, the reasons behind it
There is a minhag to bake shlissel challah (shlissel means key in Yiddish) for the Shabbos after Pesach. Shlisel challos are best known as a segula for parnasa,Some bake the challah with an actual key inside,
some make the challah in the shape of a key and some put sesame seeds on top in the form of a key. The Ohev Yisroel says about shlisel challah that “the minhagim of our fathers are most definitely Torah”. There are many reasons given for this minhag of baking shlissel challah; (Some of the items written below can also be found in Taamei Minhagim, Nitei Gavriel, Sefer Hatoda’a and Minhag Yisroel Torah)
First of all, the second mishna in Rosh Hashanah says on Pesach we are judged on the grains, parnasa. Rabbeinu Nissim asks if we are judged on Rosh Hashana then how are we judged on Pesach? He answers that on Pesach it is determined how much grain there will be in the coming year for the world, but on Rosh Hashana it is decided how much of that grain each individual receives. The
Meiri, however, says that on Rosh Hashana it is decided if one will live or die, suffer or not and other such things, but on Pesach is when we are judged on the grains. Based on this there are customs in Sephardic communities to do things Motzei Pesach as a sign that we want Hashem to give us livelihood. In Aram Soba (Syria) and Turkey they put wheat kernels in all four corners of the house on Motzei Pesach as a sign of prosperity for the coming year. (Moed L’kol Chai -R’ Chaim Palagi, Beis Habichira). From a mishna we already see that there is a connection between Pesach and parnasa.
10 Reasons for Shlissel Challa on shabbos after Pesach
1).In Shir Hashirim (which we read on Pesach) it says פִּתְחִי-לִי אֲחֹתִי רַעְיָתִי - “Open for Me, My sister, My beloved". Chazal say that Hashem asks us to open up for Him a small whole like the tip of a needle and He will open up a huge hole for us. Also, Klal Yisroel is called a bride and they are called the bechina (aspect) of bread. During Pesach all the upper gates and minds are open and after Pesach they close and we need to open them. Therefore, we put a key in the challah after Pesach to hint at us opening a small “hole”, through the mitzvah of Shabbos (and, if I might add, the mitzvah of challah) and now Hashem should open up all His good from his storehouses and the heavens like He gave the mon to our fathers in the month of Iyar, and this Shabbos we bless the month of Iyar.
2) After Pesach is when the mon stopped falling and we brought the Omer. From then on we needed to eat from the produce of the ground; we needed parnasa, since untill now we had the mon. It is known that everything has a gate. Therefore just as we daven to Hashem to open up the gates of parnasa we have a minhag to put the form of a key on the challos to allude that Hashem should open up the gates of parnasa for us.
3) During sefira we count 49 days till Shavuos, the 50th day, which is the shaarei bina. We go from gate to gate, and each gate has a key. That is why we make an image of a key on the challah.
4) It says in Shir Hashirim 1:11 תּוֹרֵי זָהָב נַעֲשֶׂה לָּךְ עִם נְקֻדּוֹת הַכָּסֶף - "We will make for you circlets of gold with spots of silver." By the Mishkan it says זהב וכסף ונחשת, putting zahav (gold) before kesef (silver). In Bereishis, by the creation of the world, the first day it says Yehi ohr which is chesed (which is represented by silver) and the second day represents gevurah, which in turn represents gold. The reason is that by the creation of the world it was pure chesed, as it says “the world was built on chesed” (Tehilim 89,3), therefore chesed, which is representative of kesef, precedes gevurah, which is representative of zahav. By the Mishkan, however, Hashem had to, so-to-speak, contract (tzimtzum) the Shechina (Divine Presence) to dwell in it, and tzimtzum is from the aspect of gevurah, therefore zahav precedes kesef by the Mishkan. However, the zahav written there has the nekudah (vowel sound) of a פַתַּח (it has a patach instead of the usual kometz), it says זְהַב הַתְּנוּפָה (Shemos 38,24), and that is the nekuda of chesed –the nekuda of chochma. And פתח (the vowel) also means opening like פתח ושער- from there comes all the kindness. Putting it all together, this that we say in Shir Hashirim תּוֹרֵי זָהָב נַעֲשֶׂה לָּךְ עִם נְקֻדּוֹת הַכָּסֶף means the Mishkan was made with zahav, the aspect of tzimtzum, but with the nekuda of kesef, meaning the (word “zahav”,instead of having the usual vowel, kometz, is written with the)nekuda of patach, which is chesed. And the Shabbos after Pesach is always in the second week of sefira which is gevurah, the aspect of zahav, except that it is menukad with kesef, nekudas patach. Through this we say that we will open up all the gates of blessing and since every gate has a מפתח (key) we make the image of a key on the challah.
5) The previous four reasons are all brought by the Ohev Yisroel in Shabbos Acher Pesach and Likutim Parshas Shmini. There is a fifth reason brought by the Ohev Yisroel, also based on the posuk תּוֹרֵי זָהָב נַעֲשֶׂה לָּךְ עִם נְקֻדּוֹת הַכָּסֶף, connecting the written and oral Torah to challah. (See Ohev Yisroel, Shabbos Acher Pesach)
6) The matza we ate on Pesach is supposed to instill in us Yiras Hashem. And Yirah is compared to a key as we see from the following Gemara in Mesechta Shabbos 31a-b: “Rabbah bar Rav Huna said: Any person that has Torah but doesn’t have Yiras Shomayim is comparable to a treasurer who has the keys to the inner parts (of the treasure house) but the keys to the outer area was not handed to him. How can he get to the inner parts (if he can’t first get into the outer parts)?” Therefore we put a key in the challah the Shabbos after Pesach to show we want the Yirah obtained from the matzos to stay with us, because if one has Yirah then the Torah will stay attached to him. (Yismach Yisroel)
7) The Rambam lists out at the beginning of Hilchos Chometz U’Matzathat there are 8 mitzvos (3 positive & 5 negative) involved there. The key we put in the challah alludes to this Rambam: the letters of מפתח (key) spell פ״ת ח׳ מ׳צות. (פ״ת is bread, representing the “chometz” and מ׳ is for matza- these allude to Hilchos Chometz U’Matza, and theח׳ is the 8 mitzvos involved) (Tzvi LaTzadik)
8) The Shabbos after Pesach we make challos that look like matzos, as an allusion to the matzos that were eaten on Pesach Sheini. And we put a key in it to allude to the “gates” being open untill Pesach Sheini. (Imrei Pinchos)
9) The minhag is to put keys in the challah and make them in the form of matzos. The reason is that in these seven weeks of sefira we are supposed to work on our Avodas Hashem until we reach the the level of the first night of Pesach. The way to do this is to put the “left into the right”, meaning mix the trait of ahava (right side) with yirah(left side). In this second week of sefira we have these two traits in our hands, since the first week of sefira is chesed- ahava, and the second week is gevura - yirah. That is why we make the challah look like matza. Matza is representative of the yetzer tov, the right, andchometz is representative of the yetzer horah, the left. Now, we havechallos which are true chometz, in the form of matza; “the left is in the right”, chometz in matza. (Shearis L’Pinchos)
10) There are many reasons given for the shlissel challah, and I say that the shlisel challos are the keys to parnasa. (Segulas HaBeShT V’Talmidov quoting Nachlas Yaakov)
Lakewood Zmanim עש"ק פר'שמיני מברכים חודש אייר אסרו חג תשפ"ג
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Sunday April 16 News Updates Lakewood
Weather: 71° Mostly cloudy skies with some morning fog. High 71F.
- Hachnosas sefer Torah at Arlington shul 3:00 pm
- Bracha on blossoming fruit treee 1140 Forest Avenue Lakewood corner Carey street. Clifton Ave corner 9th street.
- 2023 post pesach shopping guide by AKO - The Association of Jewish Kashrus Organizations HERE
- Vehicle car crash report i. Lakewood for March 2023 Total Crashes 544 resulting in 55 injuries including 18 Pedestrians struck. Since January there's been over 1300 crashes and 43 pedestrians struck averaging 4 per week. Town officials have remained quiet and issued no statements. Faa
- Faanews Lakewood's Zoning Board is set this coming Monday, April 17, to review a proposal for construction of a large shopping center as part of The Parke development at the Eagle Ridge golf course. Many questions are waiting to be answered. See more
- Hachnosas sefer Torah today in Lakewood going to Teitelbaums B"M procession leaving at 2:30 pm from 15. 14th street to the BM 1375 Princeton Ave.
- Update: one of the victims from the chol hamoed ride accident in Lakhas B"H returned home from the hospital. Other still hospitalized.
Yeshivos Bein hazmanim programs this week at several shuls until bochurim return for summer zman.
- new COVID-19 variant is causing concern in India and it may be 1.2 times more infectious than the Kraken variant. The new strain, dubbed Arcturus, has increased 13-fold in the last month in the country. The WHO is monitoring the spread in the UK and US a symptom is itchy ed eyes
- BD”E: Legendary Singer Reb Michoel Schnitzler, Z”l he was niftar late on Friday afternoon at the age of 62. He suffered a massive heart attack in the Monsey area on Friday afternoon, after he returned to New York from Eretz Yisrael, where he spent Pesach. For several decades, the name Reb Michoel Schnitzler was synonymous with entertaining and inspiring Yidden, through his musical abilities and his sterling middos. He was born in California to his father, Reb Meshulam Zusha Schnitzler, z”l, who was also niftar young. Reb Meshulam Zusha was the son of Harav Shraga Shmuel Schnitzler, zt”l, the Tchaba Rav.Levaya this morning in Monsey Airmont bais olam watch live Here (Hamodia)
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Monday April 17 News Updates Lakewood
Tehillim For the Mashgiach Shlita
Urgent Tefillos for the Lakewood Mashgiach Rav Mattisyahu Solomon Shlita who is in critical condition. All Botei medrash of BMG are reciting Tehillim. Name is Mattisyahu Chaim ben Ettel. לרפו"ש בתוך שאר חולי ישראל
Oif Simchas Monday Night כ"ז ניסן
Tuesday April 18 News Updates Lakewood
Oif Simchas Tuesday Night כ"ח ניסן
Taking a Haircut or Shaving on Friday Rosh Chodesh Iyar This Year
QUESTION: For those who began observing the sefirah restrictions on the second night of Pesach, is there any special dispensation to take a haircut or a shave on Rosh Chodesh Iyar when it falls on a Friday [and Shabbos] – as it does this year?
DISCUSSSION: Mishnah Berurah,(1) followed by almost all of the poskim,(2) rules that when Rosh Chodesh Iyar falls on a Friday, it is permitted to take a haircut or a shave that Friday, even for those who are already in the midst of the sefirah mourning restrictions. This exception (which is for haircut and shaving only – not for other sefirah restrictions such as listening to music) is permitted in honor of the double occasion of Shabbos and Rosh Chodesh.(3)
Mishnah Berurah, however, does not clearly address whether or not this also applies to those who follow the special restriction recorded in the Will and Testament of Rabbi Yehudah Hachasid never to take a haircut or a shave on any Rosh Chodesh throughout the year, even if Rosh Chodesh falls on Friday.(4) Other poskim, however, do discuss this issue directly: Some hold that Rosh Chodesh Iyar is an exception and permit taking a haircut or a shave on Friday, Rosh Chodesh Iyar;(5) others maintain that Rosh Chodesh Iyar is not an exception and is no different from any other Rosh Chodesh;(6) while a third opinion suggests that one should take a haircut or a shave on Thursday afternoon after chatzos.(7) One should consult his rav as to which opinion to follow.
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1 O.C. 493:5.
2 A dissenting view is quoted by Kaf ha-Chayim 493:42.
3 If, for some reason, one will be unable to take a haircut or shave on Friday, it is permitted to do so on Thursday night.
4 As quoted by Mishnah Berurah 260:7.
5 Harav M. Feinstein (quoted in L’Torah V’horahah, vol. 2, pg. 20); Harav Y. Kamenetsky (Emes L’yaakov O.C. 260:1). Note, however, that even according to this opinion, only those who are already observing the sefirah restrictions may be lenient on Rosh Chodesh. Those who customarily begin sefirah restrictions on Rosh Chodesh should do so this year as well and take their haircut and shave on Thursday.
6 Harav Y. Y. Kanievsky (quoted in by Harav C. Kanievsky in Bein Pesach L’shavuos, pg. 246.)
7 Kaf ha-Chayim 493:47, quoting several poskim.
https://torah.org/torah-portion/weekly-halacha-5766-tazria/
Wednesday April 19 News Updates Lakewood
Oif Simchas Wednesday כ"ט אייר
Thursday April 20 News Updates Lakewood
Hashkafa Q&A
Oif Simchas ר"ח אייר תשפ"ג
Lakewood Committee Meeting Recap
Township Committee meeting recap.
The meeting was virtual despite all covid restrictions lifted, committeeman Mike Delua was a no show. Deputy mayor Menashe Miller who is currently deployed said he would have not been able to attend if not for the virtual meeting. Interestingly, Miller made no public mention previously to resort to in person meetings when he is home in Lakewood. Members of the public have repeatedly asked for a hybrid system of in person meetings with the option of joining virtually.
The committee as usual ignored public comments about several issues such as, traffic in Lakewood or the daily gridlock, the not involving the community on big construction projects, lack of infrastructure and the condition of Mike Delia. The mayor did respond to a favorable comment about a drainage issue thanking the resident and a guardrail lawsuit on Cedarbridge Ave.
The committee tabled the ordnance to allow high rise buildings after conflicting comments from the fire commissioners and chiefs about the cost to tax payers. No traffic or quality of life issues were mentioned. The mayor asked that it be sent back to the fire bored of fire commissioners for clarification and abide by their recommendation next meeting May 18.
Committeeman Miller announced the upcoming memorial day parade,the mayor thanked chaverim for unlocking his daughters vehicle after a dog got locked inside by mistake. Anew road called Mikes Way will be named after firmer inspection dept head Mike Sacaamano. The meeting lasted a total of 16 minutes.
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Friday April 21 News Updates Lakewood
Shortage of Wedding Halls
As the community grows there currently is a shortage of wedding halls n the Lakewood area and newly engaged couples are finding it hard to find dates for the chasunah. The wait now is 5-6 Months out for most halls which is a serious issue as the general litvish community don't have long engagements. There are about 10 new halls expected to open within the next few years but it's not a fix for the current time.
People are booking halls outside Lakewood to make simchas
Several factors have contributed to the halls being booked up. Lakewood has become the prime destination to host weddings for the frum community due to affordability and location with many family members living there. Chasidim who have long engagement get to book wedding dates 9 months in advance and many are living in theakewood area.
As a result of the shortage the second half of sefira which was not typical to make weddings is now fully booked every night as rabbonim do not like long engagements for couples who get engaged after the freezer opens and can't find a wedding date until July or August.
B"H theses are challenges from bracha but still an issue that needs. Fixing.
- There is a apartment shortage as well now with couples desperate to find where to live.
Zmanim Lakewood עש"ק פר'תזריע -מצורע שבת ר"ח אייר
Friday, April 21, 2023 / ל׳ ניסן תשפ"ג ערב שבת פרשת תזריע-מצורע ראש חודש אייר
-Candle lighting: 7:23 pm-Shkia/Sunset 7:41 pm

-Weather shabbos day 69° Mainly cloudy. Slight chance of a rain shower. High 69F.
-Pirkei Avos Perek ג
Iyar is also a segula for refuah and healing Reb Pinchos of Koritz says the rains that fall between Pesach and Shevuos is a great refuah for diseases that have no cure, rachmana litzlon. One should let the rain fall on their head and open their mouth to let the rain go straight in (some places say to the right side of the mouth mouth)